Calm The Tantrums
How to Calm Toddler Tantrums
without yelling, bribing, or giving in
Are toddler tantrums making you miserable as a parent?
When my child was going through the terrible-twos, her temper tantrums could easily last for hours.
My toddler would cry over small things all day, every day.
Then it kept escalating until I started screaming right along her.
When I yelled, I felt like a bad mom.
I didn’t know what to do.
I felt so helpless.
I read parenting books. I tried everything the experts told me to do.
Still, nothing worked.
I couldn’t take her anywhere because she threw epic tantrums whenever she didn’t get her way…
It drove me crazy. I was at my wits end.
It was exhausting and defeating.
If so, you’re not alone. There is a reason these struggles persist.
The REAL reason these parenting methods don’t work ...
I received a lot of advice from friends and family.
They told me to ignore or punish my child.
Having an engineering degree, I know that a runaway car cannot stop on its own without a brake.
You wouldn’t ignore a runaway car and hope it would stop itself… or punish the driver for not using the nonexistent brake, right?
But that’s exactly what ignoring or punishing would do.
Babies are not born with a complete emotional brake.
Ignoring or punishing would not create a proper braking circuit.
I was finally able to stop the emotional runaway before it went rolling down the hill.
The reason why most parenting methods don’t work is because they work on the child’s behavior on the outside, but neglect what’s causing it on the inside.
It’s like stopping a runaway car from the outside… by putting up a brick wall for it to crash into.
A much better way is to disengage the engine and build a working brake from the inside.
When my child threw a tantrum, I helped her calm down and develop her emotional brake.
Yes, it took longer, but crashing repeatedly would have made it much harder, if not impossible, to develop her own brake.
My toddler went from having multiple tantrums every day to calming herself even when things didn’t go her way
We’re now both calmer and happier, and love spending time together.
We are closer than ever before.
In preschool, the teachers kept commenting how well behaved and delightful she was, and that she never had a tantrum there.
When she was in kindergarten, I even got a text from her teacher complimenting her emotional regulation.
If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums, I was exactly where you are.
I loved my child, but hated her tantrums.
I wanted to spend quality time with her, but the constant meltdowns made it so hard and so draining.
Her endless tantrums made me feel that there must be something wrong with my parenting, or something off with her.
If you’re feeling ANY of these, you’re not alone.
There is nothing wrong with you, or your child!
All you need is the right information so you can help your kid develop their emotional brake properly.
Introducing
Calm The Tantrums
A Step-by-Step Tantrum Survival Guide
How to teach your child emotion regulation skills so they can learn to calm themselves which means shorter and fewer tantrums
Secrets to Staying CalmHow you can stay calm during tantrums so you don’t explode which means you will be a good role model for your child
The best way to calm toddler tantrums so you can stop the chaos which means you can confidently get through the terrible-twos
PreventionTop 3 ways to prevent tantrums so you can cut down on meltdowns and enjoy more peace at home
From the Author Of Bestseller - TURNING TANTRUMS INTO TRIUMPHS
I’m a parenting specialist, Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Parenting Styles. I help parents restore happiness at home and kids reach their full potential using brain-science-based strategies.
This book is the result after poring over hundreds, if not thousands, of scientific studies when I was dealing with my daughter’s terrible twos tantrums. It is a follow-on to my first bestseller, Turning Tantrums Into Triumphs.
Join the thousands of parents who have used this strategy successfully and discover how science can help you create a happy home.
Yours sincerely,
Pamela Li
Trained in Child Development, Behavior, and Mental Health at Stanford University
MS, Stanford University
MBA, Harvard University
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This ebook is for parents or caregivers of preschoolers or elementary schoolers.
Will this book help me if my child is very strong-willed?
Absolutely. Although every child is different, the process of brain development is similar for everyone. My strategy focuses on helping children develop the regulating circuit in their brain so they can control and manage those big feelings.
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